Affirmations

Life can be brutal so take time to encourage each other. Affirm the things that are commendable, likeable, praiseworthy, or strengths. Tell what you see God doing in each other's lives, where they have grown and changed, and the gifts God is developing in them. Tell each other how they have made a difference in your life and in the group.

How:
Have everyone in turn affirm one person. Then, focus on the next person until everyone has affirmed each group member.

Variations:
Share strengths you see in each member using the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23.

Think of one gift you'd like to give each person in the group (i.e. peace, a new car...). Tell them and pray for them.

Describe each person in the group using three positive words.

Tape a thick piece of paper (cardstock) on each person's back and give each one a felt tip pen. Write an affirmation on each other's papers and sign it.

Optional discussion questions before giving affirmations:
How hard is it for you to give sincere compliments? Why?
How do you want people to respond when you compliment them?
How do you normally respond when someone compliments you? Why?
Which is more difficult for you: giving compliments or receiving them? Why?
Do you suppose God enjoys being complimented as much as we do? What compliments do you want to give God?

Optional discussion questions after giving affirmations:
What did you think was the hardest part of this meeting?
Which compliment surprised you the most or meant the most to you?
(Questions from: Talking the Walk by Dave Bartlett & Bill Muir. Zondervan, 2000.)

 

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